The Hard Days….

There are some days in when you wake up with this sinking feeling in your heart. The feeling of not being understood, misunderstood, being alone and if something bad happens, that acts as a cherry on the top.

You talk to people, try and lift yourself up, but nothing seems to work. You go into your shell and wish never to come out. It’s this all time gloomy feeling which decreases our will to work and in worst cases, live. These are the times we need that one person who could bring us back to our version of ‘ normal’. However, if you loose that person too, there are still some ways you can make your day better if not good.

Everything seems too hard in these days but these are the days that one needs to take charge of their life. We discover ourselves in a new light. We think about the deepest thoughts we have, the things we like, dislike and tolerate.

In order to change the atmosphere around you, talk to new people, talk about random things, get to know new people, there are always some people you don’t know much about, people who have a different story than yours, a new tale to tell. when you hear new stories, one gets engulfed in it, this helps in getting over the awful and sinking thoughts that were running through your mind. it’s not always easy; however, these are the moments of courage that help us get to the other side of the tunnel, Victorious!!

Another way is to talk to a person about the things you’re feeling, there are people who care for you, who want to see you happy and they can help. Find people who won’t judge you, who would at least try and understand and give you a helping hand to overcome these fears and see the light in your life.

To end my first blog post, I would like to quote one of my good friends, “Struggling for self is okay, as long as you don’t give up, you’re okay.”